The Tahitian gardenia — the tiare — is worn behind the right ear if you're available, the left if you're not. It is the specific flower placed around your neck when you arrive somewhere that has decided your arrival is an occasion. The Blush Pink Tahitian Gardenia is that flower in ceramic, 4.53 inches across, one screw, no water, on a wall in blush pink where it has been making that case since we first put it there. It has not needed to repeat itself. We have not asked it to.